Safe Space Forum

Let me just start by saying that this woman is a wonderful woman. She's one of the kindest and most selfless people I've ever met and I am very grateful to have met her regardless of how things between us are now. The issue is that for the past four months, I haven't been able to get in touch with her. I've tried calling and texting. I texted at least twice a week for the past four months and got no response. My calls were all declined, and I was very worried about her until I heard from another friend that she was going through hard times. I felt very bad for sher because this person deserves the world. I sent her more encouraging texts after hearing about that and understood why she "ghosted" me. On her birthday I sent a message that was also left on unread. She's back online now and I'm happy to see that she's doing much better now, but it's seriously messing with my head that she's still "ignoring" me. I keep thinking up scenarios in my head that maybe I've offended her somehow. Like I said, this is an amazing person who has been very encouraging, supportive and helpful to me in the past. And she is one of very few people I would keep texting even after my previous messages went unanswered. The situation is messing with me a lot because I hate feeling like I'm bothering someone and that's how my months of several unanswered messages is making me feel. I'm thinking about just letting her be and not reaching out to her again until she reaches out to me. Maybe she is still dealing with stuff and can't associate with me. I dunno but it's messing with me now. What do I do, guys?

For a while now, I have been experiencing great vaginal discomfort. I have used drugs prescribed by a pharmacist but the symptoms persist. I am really tired. I'm thinking of going for a test but i will have to gather some money first. Last year, i was diagnosed with PID and i was given drugs and i'd like to think it is gone. But i still experience itchings, discharge that smells and also colors my underwear, and one time, it hurt as I eased myself. I googled and googled said BV and antibiotics should work. but i just want to ask. I just learnt about vagina health recently and i thought about how careless i have been in the past. i am really scared. i just want it to be over. For a long time, i thought discharges were normal :( I was treated last year with fluconazole and it went away but it came again and since then, nothing has worked like that. what do i do?

Hi, So I recently started seeing this guy who is perfect for me , to be honest it feels like he was made just for me. The problem is , he is 3 years younger and is now figuring out his life ... He is still very responsible and willing to cater to my needs but it feels subpar sometimes because of the life I am used to .. I wanna be with him but I don't want to hurt him when I finally come out of the mushy phase that I think I'm in. I really like him but feel stuck ..🥺